I know this is a subject we don’t want to think about but the reality is most wives will out live their husbands. We plot and we plan all kinds of cash flow scenarios for couples to live happily ever after until they fall gently asleep in each others arms at age 100. That would be nice but life isn’t quite so predictable. Therefore as a wife, you should plan to out live your husband. This includes being ready to handle all of the arrangements and paperwork that must be handled upon death as well as long term planning for your financial needs. Below is a list of issues that should be addressed before you become a widow.
- Select an Estate Planning Attorney who you trust and are comfortable with to draft a will and help you through the process of settling your husband’s estate.
- Draft a will and a Health Power of Attorney.
- Discuss end of life plans with each other.
- Review the beneficiary designations on IRAs, 401ks, and life insurance policies.
- Organize your financial papers so you know what you have, where you have it and who your contact is.
- Take an active role in managing your finances.
- If you are uncomfortable with finances, take some classes and read some books to educate yourself.
- If you choose to work with a Financial Planner take the time to select someone who you trust and feel comfortable with – especially when you are alone. The National Association of Personal Financial Advisors provides some good guidelines on selecting a financial planner at www.Napfa.org.
- Run some retirement planning scenarios as a widow – will you have enough money to cover your expenses if you husband predeceases you? Are you still entitled to his pension or will you receive a decreased payout?
- Does your cash flow fall short of what you need? Consider buying some term life insurance? Consider adjusting your work situation to save more money?
- What happens if one of you needs long term care? Can you cover the expense or should you consider long term care insurance?
- What happens to your health insurance when your husband dies? How much time do you have to secure health insurance in your name? Are you entitled to Cobra?
- Establish credit in your name, get your own credit card.
- Do you have adequate emergency reserves to cover funeral expenses and several months of expenses?
The loss of a spouse is extremely difficult. Most widows feel like they are in fog for the first year. The last thing on your mind will be money but some issues will need to be addressed. Make it easier on yourself and plan ahead.